| When you are going through a divorce, you will want | | | | feeling. You will want to make sure that the friends |
| to start rebuilding your life. You want to make this | | | | that you do keep in contact with are true and honest. |
| new life of yours work as well as you can. There | | | | You do not want to keep friends around that are |
| are no guarantees in life so you want to make sure | | | | going to make life difficult for you. You do not want |
| that you are able to get the support that you want | | | | any friends around you that may act as spies for the |
| and need from those that are around you. This | | | | opposing team. This is a hard act to catch and you |
| support will come from those of your friends and | | | | may want to be up front with them if you are |
| family members. | | | | suspicious in any way at all. |
| You will want to make sure that you are looking | | | | For some of the couples that are going through a |
| towards the friends that are always there for you. | | | | divorce, they may find that they are able to keep in |
| You want to make sure that you are getting the | | | | contact with friends that they both have had for |
| support and love that you need in order to make the | | | | years. This is a great situation to be in because you |
| most of your life and what the future will hold for | | | | do not have to choose between what friends you can |
| you. The friends that you keep after your divorce | | | | keep and those that you have to lose contact with. |
| are important. You want to make sure that you are | | | | Many people have great relationships with their old |
| keeping your ties open with those people that have | | | | friends even though they may have met through their |
| been there with you through thick and thin. | | | | ex spouse. |
| There are going to be some of your friends that are | | | | Sometimes people are going to want to cause trouble |
| not going to hang around. They may be closer with | | | | in your relationships and stir up some conflict. When |
| your spouse and keep their friendships with them. | | | | this happens, you need to make sure that you are |
| There are no simple ways to look at divorce. You | | | | aware of it and take the necessary steps to make |
| want to make sure that you are keeping good contact | | | | the situation better. This will mean ending ties with |
| with those that you want to and make sure that you | | | | those that you have been close to for a long time. It |
| are able to find ways to lean on the friends that you | | | | may be hard but you have to do what you need to in |
| know you can trust. You have to be a little bit | | | | order to keep yourself happy and healthy. |
| assertive and make sure that your friends are | | | | Friends can be a leaning support for you when you |
| sincere. This is the only true way that you can be | | | | are going through a divorce. You will want to make |
| sure who you can count on and who cannot. | | | | sure that you are open with them and have someone |
| The main thing that you have to do when you trying to | | | | that you can lean on as well as depend on throughout |
| keep your friends through a divorce are is honest. You | | | | the entire situation. You will be doing something good |
| want to make sure that you are keeping your friends | | | | for yourself emotionally and physically at the same |
| close to you so that you can have a safe and secure | | | | time. |