| If you happen to be at a turning point in your | | | | When you and your partner are talking about your |
| relationship that you think may end in divorce, do you | | | | situation it would be best to not argue. Arguing will only |
| feel you want to try and stop it stop? You would not | | | | make it worse and you will never reach any good |
| be alone with this, many people who see a divorce on | | | | conclusions. Listen to each others side of the story |
| the horizon try to do what they can to stop it. | | | | and try to understand their feelings. You may be in the |
| Fortunately there are some techniques that can be | | | | right but don't rub it in your spouses face, be |
| used to either stop a divorce or fix problems before | | | | reasonable and listen and find something you can |
| you reach that point. | | | | agree with. |
| You should mentally prepare yourself for the worse | | | | Marriage counseling can even help if adultery is the |
| just in case you are unable to save your marriage. | | | | problem. They have the experience to handle this kind |
| Being mentally prepared is only making sure you are | | | | of situation and may very well be able to save the |
| not devastated or disappointed by whatever outcome | | | | marriage. Using marriage counseling is not always |
| may come of your trying to fix things. If you must, use | | | | expensive. See if there are any free or reduced cost |
| family therapy or a marriage counselor to help the two | | | | counseling services in your area if the cost may be a |
| of you work out your differences. | | | | factor in pursuing this route. |