"Pit Bull" Attorneys And Family Law

Many people hold the unfortunate belief that whenthat more qualified attorneys would have potentially
they become involved in a lawsuit – including"won" $300,000, is that considered a "win?" The
divorce - they need to find a lawyer who is a "fighter,"attorney did "win"- insofar as the opposing side
or "pit bull" (i.e., like the dog bred specifically to fightultimately lost the case. However, wasn't a more
other dogs). Since legal disputes are adversarial byappropriate resolution lost? Then again, what if an
nature, the logic seems to be that an aggressiveaggressive attorney causes both sides to incur legal
attorney will more successfully advance one'sfees in the sum of $30,000, and yet ultimately "wins"
interests in court.  By logical extension, a lawyer whoonly $5,000 for his/her client. Should that be considered
is not ruthlessly aggressive would be a suboptimala "win?" And, if so, for whom?
choice.From my perspective, neither of these situations can
However, I would like to point out that strong, proactive,be considered to be a true victory for the client. While
and even aggressive representation does notruthless and combative attorneys, and other such
necessarily equate with the "pit bull model." Attorneyspeople, would argue that a "win" is a "win," this point of
classified as pit bulls often tend to be belligerent,view assumes that the only thing that really matters is
argumentative, and eager to fight. What the publicthat the other side is defeated. Unless I am missing
does not realize is that highly contentious individualssomething, the true "winner" in such situations is the
(attorneys included) usually place self-interest above allattorney. While some may argue that the client "won"
else. It should be obvious that always looking for morehis or her debate as a matter of principle, and that the
points to fight over, and even taking unreasonabletoll it may take on both sides is irrelevant, I contend that
positions on behalf of their clients, generatesthe cost (both financial and emotional) of fighting with
significantly more money in fees for the lawyer whothis notion as a guiding force is often just not worth it. If
charges on an hourly basis. Moreover, such attorneysclients realized the extreme emotional and financial toll
tend to derivea great deal of pleasure from the fight inin advance of pursuing such principles, many would not
and of itself.   In fact, many attorneys enter the fielddo so. This is especially true if the vindictive emotions
precisely because they enjoy argumentativethat fuel such legal wrangling could otherwise be
confrontation, and tend to be disagreeable and difficultdiffused through the use of psychologists and other
people in general.such mental health care professionals.
These attorneys thus tend to delay the resolution of aI have noted that disagreeable, contentious clients tend
case, file motions that make no sense from a costto seek out similarly oriented attorneys. Interestingly
benefit analysis, and often cause the other side toenough, I've seen that such individuals tend to relate
need to file motions, or incur significant legal fees andwell with each other-at least at first. Meanwhile, a client
costs because their client is refusing to disclosewho tends to be more cooperative might retain an
required information and/or is hiding marital assets. (Inattorney who is more antagonistic toward others and
my many years in the field, I have noticed that difficultvice versa, but such relationships do not tend to last.
and combative clients tend to retain difficult, combativeUltimately, the difficult client and difficult attorney will not
counsel, while reasonable and cooperative clientsbe able to treat each other any differently than they
usually retain more reasonable representation.)treat anyone else. Furthermore, the more reasonable
"Pit bull attorneys" are not concerned with resolving aclient very often parts way with his or her overly
case in a fair and equitable manner, despite the factaggressive attorney before long. These sorts of
that the family law court is considered a court ofmismatching are why clients might go through several
equity, or fairness. Instead, these attorneys takedifferent attorneys in course of a single particular legal
advantage of the flaws and imperfections in the legalproceeding.
system to make the case for the other side so costlyI have previously written about the supreme
that they either cannot or will not continue to fight forimportance of trust, mutual respect, and good
that to which they are otherwise legally entitled. Suchcommunication between a client and his or her
attorneys are focused on "winning," no matter whatattorney in order to have both a successful working
the cost, irrespective of right and wrong, and in totalrelationship, and a positive outcome in legal
disregard of equity.  proceedings. Here again, I must point out that "pit bull
In truth, the very concept of "winning" in court isattorneys" and their clients can rarely, if ever, maintain
somewhat subject to interpretation. For example, if athese crucial aspects of the relationship.
particular attorney "wins" a client $30,000 in a case© 2009 Mark B. Baer, Esq.