Summer Wedding Stress Relief

Yes, the summer wedding season is upon us onceForearmsh. Upper armsi. Chest (pecs)j. Neck (front,
again. Although it is supposed to be one of the mostback, and sides)
joyous and exciting of times, it can also be one of the3. Keep all of your muscles tense for a few seconds
most stressful. A good friend who just recently tied4. Exhale and relax all muscles
the knot, became a bit knotted up herself - to theRepeat 3 times (total)
degree that she had to seek medical attention for aHealing Breath
host of stress related ailments such as nervousThis is a great exercise to use if you feel a cold
stomach, neck and shoulder pain as well ascoming on, but it is also very relaxing. It works best if
headaches and dizziness.you are lying down with your eyes closed, but you can
It's easy to understand how that could happen. Theredo it sitting as well. Breathe slowly and deeply (but
is so much pressure to make everything perfect - theeffortlessly). Inhaling for 3 seconds and exhaling for 3
ceremony, the food, entertainment, decorations. Add toseconds is a good guideline, but in general, slower is
that mix bridesmaids, groomsmen, family, and inlaws -better.
who wouldn't be dizzy?1. Inhale and visualize the breath coming in through the
Most of us need powerful help to weather that kind oftop of your head and follow it down to the bottom of
perfect storm. Here are several tips:your stomach
First, stay on top of stress. Make sure that you are2. Hold it there and imagine it as a ball of energy
taking time to exercise and relax, but if you can't do3. On the exhale, imagine it like arm water coursing
that take a few minutes a few times a day anddown from your stomach and out the balls of your
practice the Energy Wave breathing exercise (seefeet.
below). It only takes a minute and you can practice it4. Pause before inhaling again
anywhere, anytime.Repeat steps 1-4 a total of 3 times
Often times stress can lower our resistance to colds5. Inhale as in #1 above
and flu. If you feel a bug coming on take a few6. Hold as in #2 above
minutes, lay down and practice the Healing Breath7. On the exhale, imagine it like water coursing from
exercise (see below). Repeat as many times a day asyour stomach back and up your spine, down your
needed. It is also a great stress-buster.arms and out the palms of your hands.
Lastly, if you have trouble with anxiety or panic attacks8. Hold before inhaling again
(especially in those heart-pounding moments at theRepeat steps 5-8 a total of 3 times
altar), take slow deep breaths. If you are having trouble9. Inhale as in #1 above
breathing, just focus on exhaling slowly for as long as10. Hold as in #2 above
you can and the inhales will take care of themselves.11. On the exhale, imagine it like water coursing from
These simple yet powerful techniques can helpyour stomach back and up your spine, up and around
dissolve your stress and help make your wedding daythe top of your head, and out through your eyes.
one of the happiest days of your life!12. Hold before inhaling again Repeat a total of 3 times
Energy Wave BreathingRepeat steps 9-12 a total of 3 times
This is an excellent technique to use as a preparation13. Inhale as in #1 above
for mediation, sleep, or anytime you are feeling tension.14. Hold as in #2 above
1. Sit comfortably with your hands in your lap15. On the exhale, let it permeate your entire body and
2. As you slowly inhale progressively tense yourseep out of your skin
muscles and hold them in the following order:a. Feetb.16.
Calvesc. Thighsd. Buttockse. Pelvisf. Stomachg.