Top Ways to Deal with Conflict -- and Harness Its Potential!

Conflict management is an integral part of successfuladdressing and dealing with an issue directly. A
business administration. Research shows thatmanager who gives in to the conflicting party often
managers often spend as much as 20 percent of theirsacrifices his or her own goals and hurts the company
work day trying to resolve conflict. Although conflict isin the long run. This is why it is often healthier to have
a common workplace issue, it is important to recognizeconflict out in the open than to have people think there
the sources of conflict and implement strategies tois harmony when there really is not.Forcing is the
solve problems. This can help businesses overcomeopposite of accommodating. The manager who
the harmful aspects of conflict and benefit from theforces his or her employees to accept a solution to a
positive results conflict can produce.There are fourproblem or forces them to drop the issue will seldom
basic elements of conflict. These include:1. Thefind the best long-term solutions. This type of behavior
involvement of two or more parties2. A perception ofcan be competitive or even aggressive in nature. The
incompatible goals3. Differing values or perceptions4. Amanager (or co-worker) wants to compete to see
continuation of the conflict until both sides feel satisfiedwho's right and who's wrong, so he or she attempts to
with the results.Conflict in the workplace can takeforce an opinion on the opposition to "win" the
many forms. However, it always requires at least twoargument. This hardly ever fixes the problem and
parties. Often, one of the parties is unaware of theusually produces more anger.Compromise is often
conflict. They are a part of it nonetheless. From theseen as the best way to deal with conflict. However, it
perspective of management, it is best to identify thecan often leave both sides feeling like they've lost. This
two parties and separate them initially. The first step isis especially true when managers are the ones who
to accept that there is a problem and to define what itdecide what the compromise will be.In order to
is and who is involved.It is often difficult to realize thatsuccessfully implement the problem solving strategy,
problems are stemming from a perception ofthere must be certain common beliefs that the two
incompatible goals. Individuals may have specific goalsparties can agree on, such as:1. Cooperation is better
for their department or the organization as a whole.than competition
Those goals may be quite different than the goals that2. Parties can be trusted
someone else in another department might have. It is3. Status Differences can be minimized
often easier for an individual to see him or herself as4. Mutually acceptable solutions can be foundIt is
the "good guy" and see the person who is a threat asbetter to get the parties in a conflict involved if you are
the enemy. The important thing to keep in mind,to reach a long term solution to their problems. The
however, is that the other person may have goals thatlikelihood of a solution working is greatest when the
have not even been considered. In many instances,parties come up with it than when it is created by
finding a way to satisfy both individuals will ultimatelymanagement. However, such a solution can only be
be good for the company.Conflict is normal. That isfound when the parties realize that cooperation is in
because each individual in an organization brings certaintheir best interest.As values and perspectives differ, it
values and perspectives to the table that are unique tocan be easy for some individuals to distrust each
him or her. These can enrich the organization byother. This is often the result of a breakdown in
allowing for a more diverse dialogue andcommunication or a failure to realize the goals of
decision-making process. Unfortunately, they can alsoothers. Managers can increase their ability to gain the
spark opposition and contribute to communicationtrust of their employees by actually trusting them. This
difficulties. Still, they are healthy problems to have. Inwill give them the ability to communicate successfully
fact, a truly dysfunctional operation would be oneand help employees recognize and solve problems
where everybody gets along.Often conflicts will go ontogether.Status differences often prevent
for long periods of time. This is especially true whencommunication and lead to conflict. When employees
one or more parties keep their thoughts and feelings tofeel that management is different than them, they
themselves. This can come from a desire to avoid theoften decide not to communicate openly and problems
conflict, or can just be the result of neither side feelingcan grow over time. This will be especially true if the
satisfied with the solutions, if any.It is important formanager tends to use the forcing technique to
managers to recognize and deal with conflict.problem management.Believing that solutions can be
Sometimes it is best to just let things be. If a managerfound which will satisfy all parties is the first step
feels that not dealing with the problem would be bettertoward successfully solving a problem. The parties
than if he or she did, then perhaps that is the bestneed to admit that there is a problem and get it out in
course of action. Unfortunately, most problems don'tthe open. Management should encourage this and let
just go away, and festering anger can eat away atemployees know that conflict is normal. The problem
morale and get in the way of effectiveshould be analyzed by both parties, with the manager
decision-making.There are five main strategies foras the intermediary. By accepting employees'
resolving conflict. These are:1. Avoidanceconcerns, managers can encourage an attitude that
2. Accommodatingwill help problem solving. The parties can then come up
3. Forcingwith options for solving the problem and agree on a
4. Compromisefinal solution.Managing conflict is a normal aspect of
5. Problem SolvingAvoidance is sometimes the bestbusiness operations. Although managers do have to
course of action. Often time will fix whatever problemdedicate much of their time to conflict management,
has existed and trying to fix it yourself will just make itsuccessfully doing so can be good for the long-term
worse. Still this rarely works. More often than not,performance of the company. To effectively solve
avoiding conflict is just a sign of an inability toconflicts, managers need to recognize the factors that
successfully manage problems. The conflict avoidercause it and try to implement strategies for solving
often develops rationales for the conflict, dodgesproblems in a constructive way.Justin Elza is the
meetings or conversations where conflict is present,owner of J. Allan Writing and Design Studios, a
and hopes the conflict will resolve itself on itsfull-service creative firm that helps clients save time
own.Accommodating is an approach which rarelyand money while developing consistency in all their
leads to the problem being solved. Although this canwritten, visual, and web-based marketing
help solve the immediate problem, the basic issuecommunications. From business cards to billboards,
remains. Accommodating and avoidance are similarmemos to manuscripts, J.
techniques. They both come from a fear of