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Top Ways to Deal with Conflict -- and Harness Its Potential!

Conflict management is an integral part ofAccommodating and avoidance are similar
successful business administration. Researchtechniques. They both come from a fear of
shows that managers often spend as much as 20addressing and dealing with an issue
percent of their work day trying to resolvedirectly. A manager who gives in to the
conflict. Although conflict is a commonconflicting party often sacrifices his or her
workplace issue, it is important to recognizeown goals and hurts the company in the long
the sources of conflict and implementrun. This is why it is often healthier to
strategies to solve problems. This can helphave conflict out in the open than to have
businesses overcome the harmful aspects ofpeople think there is harmony when there
conflict and benefit from the positivereally is not.Forcing is the opposite of
results conflict can produce.There are fouraccommodating. The manager who forces his or
basic elements of conflict. Theseher employees to accept a solution to a
include:1. The involvement of two or moreproblem or forces them to drop the issue will
parties2. A perception of incompatibleseldom find the best long-term solutions.
goals3. Differing values or perceptions4. AThis type of behavior can be competitive or
continuation of the conflict until both sideseven aggressive in nature. The manager (or
feel satisfied with the results.Conflict inco-worker) wants to compete to see who's
the workplace can take many forms. However,right and who's wrong, so he or she attempts
it always requires at least two parties.to force an opinion on the opposition to
Often, one of the parties is unaware of the"win" the argument. This hardly ever fixes
conflict. They are a part of it nonetheless.the problem and usually produces more
From the perspective of management, it isanger.Compromise is often seen as the best
best to identify the two parties and separateway to deal with conflict. However, it can
them initially. The first step is to acceptoften leave both sides feeling like they've
that there is a problem and to define what itlost. This is especially true when managers
is and who is involved.It is often difficultare the ones who decide what the compromise
to realize that problems are stemming from awill be.In order to successfully implement
perception of incompatible goals.the problem solving strategy, there must be
Individuals may have specific goals for theircertain common beliefs that the two parties
department or the organization as a whole.can agree on, such as:1. Cooperation is
Those goals may be quite different than thebetter  than  competition
goals that someone else in another department
might have. It is often easier for an2.  Parties  can  be  trusted
individual to see him or herself as the "good
guy" and see the person who is a threat as3.  Status  Differences  can  be  minimized
the enemy. The important thing to keep in
mind, however, is that the other person may4. Mutually acceptable solutions can be
have goals that have not even beenfoundIt is better to get the parties in a
considered. In many instances, finding a wayconflict involved if you are to reach a long
to satisfy both individuals will ultimatelyterm solution to their problems. The
be good for the company.Conflict is normal.likelihood of a solution working is greatest
That is because each individual in anwhen the parties come up with it than when it
organization brings certain values andis created by management. However, such a
perspectives to the table that are unique tosolution can only be found when the parties
him or her. These can enrich therealize that cooperation is in their best
organization by allowing for a more diverseinterest.As values and perspectives differ,
dialogue and decision-making process.it can be easy for some individuals to
Unfortunately, they can also spark oppositiondistrust each other. This is often the
and contribute to communication difficulties.result of a breakdown in communication or a
Still, they are healthy problems to have.failure to realize the goals of others.
In fact, a truly dysfunctional operationManagers can increase their ability to gain
would be one where everybody gets along.Oftenthe trust of their employees by actually
conflicts will go on for long periods oftrusting them. This will give them the
time. This is especially true when one orability to communicate successfully and help
more parties keep their thoughts and feelingsemployees recognize and solve problems
to themselves. This can come from a desiretogether.Status differences often prevent
to avoid the conflict, or can just be thecommunication and lead to conflict. When
result of neither side feeling satisfied withemployees feel that management is different
the solutions, if any.It is important forthan them, they often decide not to
managers to recognize and deal with conflict.communicate openly and problems can grow over
Sometimes it is best to just let things be.time. This will be especially true if the
If a manager feels that not dealing with themanager tends to use the forcing technique to
problem would be better than if he or sheproblem management.Believing that solutions
did, then perhaps that is the best course ofcan be found which will satisfy all parties
action. Unfortunately, most problems don'tis the first step toward successfully solving
just go away, and festering anger can eata problem. The parties need to admit that
away at morale and get in the way ofthere is a problem and get it out in the
effective decision-making.There are five mainopen. Management should encourage this and
strategies for resolving conflict. Theselet employees know that conflict is normal.
are:1.  AvoidanceThe problem should be analyzed by both
parties, with the manager as the
2.  Accommodatingintermediary. By accepting employees'
concerns, managers can encourage an attitude
3.  Forcingthat will help problem solving. The parties
can then come up with options for solving the
4.  Compromiseproblem and agree on a final
solution.Managing conflict is a normal aspect
5. Problem SolvingAvoidance is sometimes theof business operations. Although managers do
best course of action. Often time will fixhave to dedicate much of their time to
whatever problem has existed and trying toconflict management, successfully doing so
fix it yourself will just make it worse.can be good for the long-term performance of
Still this rarely works. More often thanthe company. To effectively solve conflicts,
not, avoiding conflict is just a sign of anmanagers need to recognize the factors that
inability to successfully manage problems.cause it and try to implement strategies for
The conflict avoider often developssolving problems in a constructive way.Justin
rationales for the conflict, dodges meetingsElza is the owner of J. Allan Writing and
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