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The Lost and Found

When we think in terms of what it means fornot be inclined to believe others were
man to be lost, we are immediately confrontedcreated for that destiny either. If we do not
with the fact that it is as sad a descriptionperceive others as children of God, then we
as could ever be given to human beings. Aneed not be concerned about them or what
sick person may get well; a crippled personhappens to them. In fact, if the opportunity
may adjust to his infirmity; an indebtedpresents itself, we may even try to use and
person may pay off his debt; an illiteratemanipulate others for our own selfish
person may educate himself. But somethingpurposes. We become "things" or "toys" to
lost has severed all connections. It is outeach other and are therefore separated from
of touch, out of reach, out of reality, gone.each other as human beings. We are all trying
Lost implies interest and desire but noto play the part of God against each other
ability to locate. When something is lost itand rule over others. The result is disaster.
is disconnected from its owner. And, whenThus, we are lost and cannot find our way
someone is lost, there is a twofold negativeback home.We are "lost" because we cannot
affect because not only is the person whofind our own self-realization and expression
suffered the loss miserable, but also theapart from God. Think about this: we are
lost person. Both are dissatisfied,never fully satisfied for very long.
frustrated and incomplete. Yet, ScriptureHappiness only last a moment and security is
repeatedly describes man as being lost.Man isalways threatened. Joy is ephemeral and we
described as lost because we are disconnectedare always seeking, longing, dreaming,
from God's purpose for our lives. We are outwishing, and hoping for that which only
of touch with our Creator, out of tune withcreate greater yearnings. We are forever
divine order, disconnected from ourknocking on doors that never open, walking on
Source.Each human life has a divine purpose.thin ice, grasping for straws, barking up
It is inherent in our very essence. When Godwrong trees, living on past pains and
blew into us the "breath of life," purposeremembrances. We are so entangled and
was intermingled in with all the otherenmeshed in sin and wrongdoing that we cannot
elements that formed our humanity. Thinkset the situation right by ourselves. We are
about it. Man was to have rule over thecaught up in a never-ending treadmill
earth, but instead we have neglected thestruggle and we are doomed to remain in it.
earth and we cannot even rule ourselves. ManThere are no ifs, ands, or buts about it, we
was created for fellowship with each otherare lost and there is no escape? unless
and our creator God, but we are hostilesomehow, someone comes to help us.Well, man
towards each other and have turned our backsis separated from God because of God's nature
on our God. We are indeed lost.The reason forand holiness. God is separated from man
our "lost-ness" is clear in scripture. We arebecause of man?s sin and rebellion. So you
created to live as God's children. Butsee, this creates an impregnable impasse.
somewhere along the line, we decided that weSomeone is needed as a go-between, so to
preferred being the parent and not the child.speak; a mediator, if you will.Who could
One can observe this truth in almost everyrepresent man to God when man does not even
parent-child relationship. The child beginsknow God? Who could represent God to man when
to resent being the child. He/she desires theman feels totally independent of God? In
power or authority to do as she/he wants andother words, how could the lost be found?In
will "act out" in a plethora of abberant waysHis perfect wisdom, God solves the dilemma
to try to get what he/she wants. They lackfor us. God Himself became the very thing He
the mental ability to understand the largercreated: MAN. Instead of expecting man to
picture. Such is man. We want to play God.become like Him, He became man. God became
This is sin. All of our sinful behaviors isman, not to excuse us, but to accept the
only symptomatic of our purposeful rebellionpenalties for our rebellion Himself. And in
against submitting to the will of our parent;so doing, the barrier that separated us from
God.Now, let's translate this idea into ourGod was destroyed and man is joined to God.It
own experience and see if this is not indeed,is this human experience of God we call
exactly the way we are. Ask yourself, howJesus. Whatever Jesus was or did in His life,
many times you get an "attitude" or a defiantin His teachings, in His cross and passion,
change in behavior when someone does not doin His death and resurrection and ascension
what you want them to or behave as you thinkand exaltation, it was really God that did it
they should? This is one of the reasons soin Jesus Christ (2 Corinthians 5:18f).While
many marriages dissolve these days. Eachwe were lost, groping helpless in the dark,
partner wants things their way and is notGod comes to meet us where we are and as we
willing to make provisions for the other. Weare. He comes proclaiming that no man is
see it in our homes, on our jobs, in ourbeyond help, no situation is beyond repair.
schools, communities and government.He comes to hopeless man and makes us believe
Everywhere people are clamoring to be God.that as misbehaving and sin-prone as we are,
Even when we get sanctimonious and claim tothere is a balm in Gilead to heal the
be trying to do God's will, we have thissin-sick soul.As the woman in Scripture
uncanny proclivity to make God's willsought for a lost coin, the father sought for
coincide with what we wanted to do all along.a lost son, the shepherd sought for a lost
Thus, we are still at the center of our ownsheep, so God searches for every man. We
lives. It is interesting that this isdon't have to look for God because we learn
something peculiar only to human beings. Ain His word that before we were even aware of
tree cannot sin; neither does a lion or aour need, God sought us. The lost has been
rabbit or a rhinoceros. But man does becausefound.Saundra L. Washington, an ordained
God equipped us with capabilities that natureclergywoman and social worker, has practiced
and animals do not have; and we fight againstconcurrently in the fields of social work and
using them as we should. In so doing, weministry for almost three decades. She is the
alienate ourselves from God and each other.IfFounder of AMEN Ministries, and the author
we refuse to accept the fact that God createdof two coffee table books: Room Beneath the
us for the high destiny of fellowship withSnow, Poems that Preach and Negative
Him, then it logically follows that we willDisturbances, Homilies that Teach.



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