Sexual Harassment and Sexual Discrimination when Working Internationally

Since ancient times women have been viewed, inwomen have been harassed, and they should
many cultures, as men's inferiors physically, morally, andunderstand how to act in accordance with company
intellectually. Today, in western cultures, women enjoypolicy and governing laws. It is important to realize, for
more freedom and equality than ever before in history.example, that an executive team based in the home
Despite the gains made by women in recent years,office in the United States is actually legally responsible
particularly in the U.S., many women worldwide still findfor the actions of their employees worldwide, including
that their access to education, employment, healthcarein subsidiaries in foreign countries.
and political influence are limited because of theirWorking in the international arena can be challenging.
gender. These discrepancies continue to exist becauseMany foreign countries have no laws or regulations
many societies still maintain centuries-old social andconcerning sexual harassment, or they are not
religious laws, customs, and traditions that haveenforced, and as a result employees in many countries
created barriers to education, jobs, and healthcare, asdo not understand the American viewpoint. As a result,
well as deprive women of their political and civilmale managers in the U.S. who are unfamiliar with
rights.Sexual HarassmentSexual harassment is usuallymore traditional societies may avoid sending female
defined as a form of discrimination in which sexualstaff members to represent their companies to these
advances or requests for sexual favors constitute acultures, fearing that these businesswomen cannot be
condition of a person's employment or advancement ineffective in male-oriented societies. This viewpoint,
the workplace. It frequently occurs between a malehowever, may be keeping these executives from
and a female, often instigated by a male manager orusing what is in fact their strongest asset, since
other person in power. While many countries arewomen's perceived attributes -- being good listeners,
starting to have laws against such discrimination, it ismediators, and consensus builders -- are well-received
often reported that the laws are not enforced.in international business. Male managers only need to
Sexual harassment occurs in workplaces worldwide,become knowledgeable about the situation in other
including the United States. Laws that specificallycountries and what their responsibilities are in the event
prohibit sexual harassment have been enacted inof sexual harassment. They can then send their
Argentina, Australia, Canada, France, Germany, Israel,female staff members with confidence.U.S. courts
Mexico, the Netherlands, the United Kingdom and the(see offer some legal remedies and suggestions for
United States, but many other countries are still in thehandling discrimination and harassment situations: "The
process of studying the problem. There are two types(U.S.) courts have established that corporations that
of sexual harassment defined by U.S. law: quid pro quoassign a U.S. citizen to a post in a foreign country must
and hostile environment. Quid pro quo means that antreat that employee as if he or she were in the U.S.,
employee is asked to perform a sexual act inregardless of local customs and traditions." Recent
exchange for a job, promotion, or other perk. A "hostileSupreme Court cases suggest several legal/human
environment" is described as one which containsresource strategies that can be used to prevent
situations, acts, or items that can inhibit the productivitygender discrimination. The first is: "to educate and
of an employee, such as sexually suggestive language,prepare employees sent to work in different countries
behavior, or pictures.Some strategies (as discussed inabroad. Should a dispute arise, arbitration or mediation
more detail below) for employees who experienceis preferred over litigation. The best overall strategy is
sexual harassment include confronting the individual byto develop and implement a well-conceived company
informing him or her of the intrusive behavior andpolicy that ensures gender equality" (Cava, A. &
requesting that he or she stop it, notifying managementMayer, D., 1993).Management ResponsibilityThe
or, should management be the offender, notifying theelimination of sexual harassment starts at home. If
personnel department or the Equal Employmentyour company doesn't have a company policy on
Opportunity Commission (EEOC). (In the United States,discrimination and sexual harassment at home, there
call toll free 800-669-EEOC or see to find your localwill be little to back you up if you find yourself facing
office.) The EEOC will be able to provide you withsuch situations in the international environment. Top
written guidelines for determining what constitutesmanagement must therefore take a proactive role in
sexual harassment and how to deal with it.Sexualeradicating it from the workplace. There are many
DiscriminationThe American businesswoman maygood reasons for doing so. Sexual harassment can
unwittingly and unavoidably be party to conversationsreduce employee productivity and morale, and
and actions that discriminate against women. Forconsequently it can have a negative impact on a
example, in Asian businesses it is natural to ask acompany's bottom line, as well as cost firms a great
female employee to serve tea, and a woman may bedeal in lawsuits.
subjected to innocent questions about her age, maritalIt is the responsibility of the executive staff to
status, and whether or not she has children. In Koreaeliminate sexual harassment. Top management must
and Japan, protocol has men entering rooms andinstruct its staff that sexual harassment is illegal and
elevators ahead of women. In Europe, office talk tendswill not be tolerated.. Issuing sexual harassment policies,
to be more flirtatious and sexual in nature, sprinkledscheduling open discussions, expressing disapproval,
with many off-color jokes and puns. Derogatorycreating a path for resolution and complaint, and
statements about women in Germany are oftenrespecting individual privacy should all be part of the
expressed openly in the office, and reference to atop management plan. A comfortable environment
woman's physique is not uncommon in Italy andwith open, company-wide communication is key to
France. Other countries still view a woman who isalleviating any inhibitions employees may have about
alone as a prostitute since otherwise her husband,discussing their experiences.As a first step, a company
boyfriend or family would accompany her. Americanneeds a visible, comprehensive policy emphasizing the
women often view excessive flattery by Latinimportance of appropriate behavior: harassment and
Americans as derogatory because U.S. office policiessocial misconduct toward its employees will not be
would not tolerate such comments.Some womentolerated. This policy should also state the ramifications
report that suggestive sexual comments areof any violations. Hard copies of the company policy
sometimes used (consciously or unconsciously) asshould be distributed not only internally but also to
negotiating tools in an attempt to throw a woman offcustomers and suppliers. A copy of the policy should
her guard. Women must be prepared for this andbe available to all employees and visibly posted in
develop the ability to keep control and not show angerwork and rest areas. The company should have
or other emotion. Some tactics women have usedtraining programs for its management staff and its
successfully to respond to such situations include: givingemployees on a regular basis.
a polite verbal reprimand to remind your counterpartsIf you are in management, you can play a key role. Do
that you are conducting a business session; suggestingnot overlook or refuse to acknowledge that problems
a break while stating the negotiation has obviouslycan occur in other countries, because this will only help
gotten off track; or ending the negotiation in its entiretyreinforce their acceptance. If one of your traveling
to show absolute intolerance and disapproval.Genderstaff is harassed, it will interfere with the productivity of
Issues in EuropeMost women in Europe are still battlingyour business dealings. Harassment also violates U.S.
the glass ceiling even more than women in the U.S.law. It is frustrating for an individual who has faced
There are fewer women in upper management andsexual harassment to work with or for staff who do
more hierarchical issues with which to grapple.not understand the seriousness of the offense, or
Furthermore, European women are still expected totravel with a manager who does not speak or act on
handle all responsibilities relating to home and family.behalf of employees.Individual ResponsibilityPrepare
This interferes with their ability to hold down a jobyourself for the possibility of encountering sexual
unless they are wealthy enough to have hired help atharassment when you travel abroad. When you are
home. Shopping hours are still not convenient forvisiting countries that are male-dominated and still have
working women and day care is often not available.little awareness of women's rights, your actions may
Younger women do not have the role models of olderactually have a greater impact on foreign men than
women in the business world, so they must oftenwritten policies. In these situations, men won't expect
work harder to establish credibility and to break intowomen to assert themselves, and if you strongly
the upper ranks of business. Derogatory commentsvoice your disapproval of inappropriate behavior, these
about women appear to be more accepted by themen will often back down. Also, most businessmen
public. For example, in England the derogatory termswould not want to lose a business deal by offending
"cow" and "bird" are widely used, even on TV, and insomeone.Most women report that while their business
films, to refer to women. In France and Italy it is notdays go smoothly, the after-hours socializing that
unusual for males to touch womenoccurs in some countries can become a challenge. It is
inappropriately.Gender Issues in AsiaAsian culture hasstill common, for example, for Asian men to go out
traditionally placed more value on male offspring anddrinking after work. While drinking, they feel more
on the male roles of ruler, protector, cultivator, andcomfortable about voicing their inner feelings. If you are
breadwinner. The male is out in the world, while thethe lone woman in your group, you may become the
female remains at home to manage the householdtarget for questions that would not be asked during
and raise the children. Asian males have consequentlyworking hours. In Asia, drinking excuses what
been in a dominant position over Asian women andAmericans may consider appallingly inappropriate
have largely controlled their means ofbehavior. While the American may remain upset if he
livelihood.Centuries ago male philosophers, China's elite,or she feels anything untoward has occurred during an
developed precepts of behavior -- notably passivityevening, the incident is generally ignored by the Asian
and obedience -- that women were expected, orparticipants the next day as they carry on with
forced, to follow. Women were subordinated to theirbusiness as usual. In Latin America, women are often
fathers, brothers, husbands, and even sons. Historically,the targets of flattering comments about their
marriages in Asia were arranged not for love, but forappearance by Latin American men, sometimes to the
family connections. The bride usually lived under thepoint that it feels intrusive to the women.Should you be
domination of the husband's mother and frequentlysubjected to what you feel is sexual harassment,
faced competition from secondary wives andremain calm and professional. This attitude will have
concubines. Her husband was allowed to repudiate hismuch more impact than if you become upset or angry.
wife, especially if she did not produce a male heir. If theIn many cases men may have been trying to incite
husband died, the wife could not easily remarry. Sheyou or test your resilience. In most cases you can
had no economic independence, was frequentlyeither respond with a calm statement of disapproval,
illiterate, and had no property rights. Infanticide limitedor you can show your disapproval by remaining silent.
the number of female children.Today, Asian countriesIf you are in a situation that has become particularly
continue to be patriarchal societies with strongunpleasant, you can always leave.If you are traveling
traditions. When a woman marries, she generally joinsoverseas on business and have been accosted, you
her husband's family, and her ties with her own familyare still protected as an employee of an U.S. firm, and
weaken. The couple either lives with the husband'sshould take action in accordance with your firm's
family or, as is occurring more frequently, on its own. Ifsexual harassment policy. It is always best to report
there is a divorce, the father often gets custody of thethe incident rather than being passive and keeping it to
children. Divorce is considered shameful and is rarelyyourself. This way, if the perpetrator is an employee of
discussed. Divorce rates, which used to be very low inyour firm, he can be corrected or reprimanded, and if
East Asia, are growing however, as women becomehe is employed by another firm, at least your
more economically independent.There is an oldexecutives will be aware of the issue when deciding
Chinese saying: "Women are the moon reflecting thewhether to enter further business dealings with that
sunlight," meaning women reflect the glow of men.company.Be Prepared- If you are single, avoid talking
Young, educated East Asian women increasinglyabout your personal lifestyle or dating, as these
reject this old saying. They emphasize their individuality,subjects can lead to uncomfortable conversations. In
independence, personal responsibility, hard work, andparticular, do not discuss your marital situation if you
careers, even as they try to maintain their femininity.are divorced or living with someone.- If you feel that a
Yet the few recent studies of Asian women indicateconversation is inappropriate, don't respond. Just
that many still feel inferior to men and worry aboutchange the subject.- Avoid situations where any
managing a career and a family. Job discrimination isunwanted intimacy may be initiated, such as dinners for
still practiced in Asia. "Family connections" are verytwo.- Be careful that your actions cannot be
important in obtaining desirable jobs. Stereotypinginterpreted as being either aggressive or flirtatious.- If
women as the weaker, less capable sex stillyour international hosts insist on opening doors for you
prevails.Gender Issues in Latin AmericaThe concept ofor holding your chair at the dining table, graciously allow
"machismo" is important in Mexico and other Latinthem do so. Remember they are trying to respond
American countries, although Americanappropriately when working with women.- Avoid eating
businesswomen will encounter more macho attitudesor drinking alone in strange restaurants, since you may
in Mexico than in any other a part of Latin America.be viewed as a pick-up target. Ask your hotel
The word "macho" does not carry a negativeconcierge for restaurant recommendations.Responding
connotation in Mexico, as it does in the U.S. For ato Uncomfortable QuestionsWhen you are asked a
Mexican, the word "macho" implies strength, valor,question you consider uncomfortable or inappropriate,
self-confidence and masculinity, which are alluse short, standard answers to discourage further
considered positive qualities. There is also an underlyingquestioning. For example, many women are asked
assumption in the culture that men are supposed to betheir marital status, their age, and, if married, about dual
stronger, braver, wiser and more sexuallycareers. While these questions may be unusual, they
knowledgeable than women. Displays of machismoare often more commonly asked in foreign countries
include: showing courage in a bullring, risk-taking, takingas a form of interest about you, a woman who may
part in bar room confrontations, and displaying sexualbe very different than women in their own country.
prowess by bragging about sexual conquests or byYou can answer these in a polite manner while
having a large family. To be macho also requires thesuggesting that the questions are not appropriate by
repudiation of all characteristics considered feminine,giving answers such as "My career keeps me very
such as unselfishness, kindness, frankness andbusy," or "I am younger than I look." Ignoring the
truthfulness.question and changing the subject is a simple way of
The proof of a man's maleness in this culture is hisredirecting the conversation. If the questions are more
ability to completely dominate his wife and his childrendirect and aggressive and sexual in nature, be
and to have sexual relations with any woman heassertive and answer, "This is not an appropriate
desires. A double moral standard exists between thequestion to ask," or, if the questioner continues to be
fidelity expectations placed upon males and females inuncooperative, try to embarrass him by telling another
Mexico and Latin America. A woman's primarygroup member about your discomfort. Silence can also
obligation is to make a home and procreate; she isbe very effective.Strategies for responding to
dedicated to a life of service and no infidelity on heruncomfortable questions also include:- You may be
part is tolerated. However, men who maintainasked seemingly intrusive questions about your marital
mistresses are within their legal rights as long as theystatus and whether or not you have children. Prepare
are discreet about their affairs. A man can frequentlysome stock answers or change the topic of
divorce his wife if she commits adultery, but the wifeconversation to one that is more comfortable for you.-
can only divorce her husband if the act took place inYou might be invited to a bar after dinner. Whether or
their home.Macho men will often express an air ofnot you want to attend is your choice. It's not impolite
superiority when it comes to dealing with Americanto say no, giving jet lag or business commitments such
women in business. They may be overly polite andas faxes, e-mails, or phone calls as an excuse.- If your
attentive to a woman, but in a patronizing way.host exhibits inappropriate behavior, inform him that you
Machismo may be expressed in terms of canceled,are uncomfortable and that you want him to stop.-
forgotten, or ignored meetings, and other frustrationsf you are traveling with a team, have other
and delays. Businesswomen, especially when travelingteam members join you in expressing dissatisfaction
alone, should expect a high likelihood of unwelcomewith the situation. This will usually end the unwanted
sexual advances. Examples of this include: overly longbehavior, since to continue it will cause bad feelings.- If
eye contact, the pressing of legs under the table, andyou are in a social setting that is becoming
an overemphasis on how appealing a woman looks.uncomfortable, inform your host that you are
Most businesswomen advise against entertaining auncomfortable and would like to leave. Politely request
man alone. Instead, they suggest that a group bethat he call you a taxi. If he does not cooperate, ask
arranged. They also emphasize that a woman shouldthe establishment's staff to call one for you.- If no
establish herself as a businesswoman even at heraction is taken, get ready to leave and state the
hotel, and dress conservatively in businessreasons you are leaving. There is no reason to stay in
suits.Strategies for CopingIt is important for you, youra situation that is uncomfortable for you.- An employee
team, and your managers to understand the strategieswho desires to leave while his or her colleagues desire
you should pursue if you find yourself in ato stay should do so and not feel badly about
compromising situation. Managers should be"breaking up the fun.
well-versed on their responsibilities in cases where