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Setting Up A Meditation Room

When designing the perfect meditation roomOne of the final two tables will be for your
for your own personal use, one must keep inCD player. Now this is not just for any
mind that the overall theme will be that ofmusic, but purposefully present for the sole
peace and serenity. These two words, thoughreason of playing CD's of nature sounds.
they have the same literal definition, have aAgain, the sounds will likely vary from
decidedly different meaning for everyone. Theperson to person, and there are many to
perfect meditation room for one individualchoose from. Many people seem to prefer the
will likely seem slightly flawed to another.sounds of waves crashing on the beach while
To be more precise, one person's idea ofothers find peace in the wind whistling
serenity may not be another's. One person maythrough  the  trees.
connect serenity and peace to sitting on a
deserted beach, while another would considerThe final table is for a lamp. Your lamp
it to be at the heart of a forest at sunsetneeds to be one that has adjustable lighting,
with the sound of hundreds of Cricketswhere you can brighten or dim it to your own
chirping. In reference to the perfectpersonal preference. However, if you prefer,
peaceful setting, no two individuals areyou can strategically place candles all
alike.around  the  room,  scented  or  unscented.
The first thing to take into consideration isThe overall design here is to create, through
your space. Of course, you will want youryour senses, the perfect real world setting
Yoga mat to be in the very center of theto emulate your ideal mental environment. If,
room. Other than a small table in all fourfor example, the most peaceful moment of your
corners of the room (against the walls), youlife were spent sitting on a lakeshore at
will want no other pieces of furnituredusk, then your room would need sounds of
present. This is to give you the impressionfrog, minimal lighting, an outdoorsy cedar
of free space, without being boxed in orscent, and maybe a breeze. The breeze could
crowding. A tight space or cluttered room isbe  achieved  with  a  small  fan.
anything  but  relaxing.
You see, with the right equipment, the
As for the four small tables, these are forperfect furnishings, you can close your eyes,
two separate things. Two tables in oppositedevelop the mental picture of that moment in
corners will be for incense. When choosingtime, and actually achieve the complete
the incense, be picky. Every scent is not forsensation  of  being  there.
everyone. Some will prefer stronger smelling
incense while others will go for a smoother,Take your time with your meditation room.
creamier scent. There are literally thousandsMake sure that everything is as it should be.
of  scents  to  choose  from.If done right, you will find this to be your
haven from the world.



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