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"Things may come to those who wait, but onlyeach other. Let's go around the room and
the things left by those who hustle."-Abrahameveryone say their name and what they do for
Lincolna living." I am amazed-we're doing "Round
Robin" (30-second commercial introduction) on
Eek. The dreadful Jury Duty Summons arrivesjury duty! So when it was my turn, I said,
in the mail again. I'm all for the jury"I'm Chellie Campbell and I treat money
system, mind you, but those of us who aren'tdisorders-spending bulimia and income
on corporate payrolls don't get a paycheckanorexia." There was a shout of laughter at
during the time we serve. Oh, well, "one daythat, and I held up my book (always prepared
or one trial" isn't so bad. I am ready to dofor book promotion, I always have a copy of
my civic duty. I believe in our governmentmy book with me) and said, "I'm also the
and the trial-by-jury-of-our-peers system.author of the book 'The Wealthy Spirit'". I
If a case of mine were being tried, wouldn'tsold  five  books!
I want me to be on the jury? My mood
improved, I call in on the appointed day andLater that afternoon, my networking paid off
receive  instructions  to  show  up  Monday.again, when one of the attorneys said that an
attorney named Lorraine was going to give
I mentioned this to my family the day beforetestimony in the trial the next day. I know
at our family gathering for Mother's Day. MyLorraine from networking! I raised my hand
niece's new mother-in-law, Kathleen, perkedimmediately; "Judge, I have a conflict. I
up and said, "You're going to be on jury dutyknow one of the people giving testimony in
this week? I'm going to give a speech to thethis case." He called me over to a sidebar,
jury pool tomorrow at ten o'clock!" What awhere I explained to him and the attorneys
coincidence! She works for the Superiorthat Lorraine is a friend of mine. "How well
Court as the Managing Attorney for thedo you know her?" he inquired. I said, "We
Self-Help Management Project, and she told mewere on the Board of Directors of National
that the coming week was "Jury AppreciationAssociation of Women Business Owners for five
Week". (Wouldn't you know that would be myyears" (more networking paying off). When
week? We got free coffee and donuts, too.he inquired if that would affect my judgment
Hah!)in the case, and I shrugged and said
honestly, "I'm going to believe anything she
So I drove to the Superior Courthousesays." He  said,  "You're  excused."
downtown Los Angeles at the wee hour of 7:00
am (if this is not a wee hour to you,I called Lorraine that afternoon to thank her
remember I work nights). I ate my coffee andfor my "Get-Out-Of-Jury-Duty-Free" card. We
donut, listened to Kathleen's speech, andhad  a  good  laugh  over  it,  too!
waited to be assigned to a jury panel. I
looked around to see if I recognized anybodyYou never know when networking is going to
in the room, and sure enough, there sat Amypay off. I've sold my book to telemarketers
Brennerman, star of the TV show "Judgingwho called to sell me something. I bought a
Amy". They don't let anybody off any more;ring watch off the internet, and the seller
even  movie  stars  have  to  serve.wrote me a cheerful note, so I wrote her back
and suggested she might enjoy my book. She
Finally, I was selected for a panel, and theemailed me an hour later: "Chellie, I just
jury selection process began. This trial waswent in and read a few of the pages on Amazon
about two businessmen who had a contractual- WHAT A GREAT BOOK!!!! I'm going to buy it
disagreement over the purchase of an officeand I think I'll get one for my son too - NO,
building and we were told it would take twoI KNOW I'll get one for my son too, lol.
weeks. Two weeks?! Ouch! What happened toThanks  so  much,  Elaine,  Glitz  Galore."
the one-day thing? I made a plea that as a
small business owner it's difficult to takeNow, isn't that fun? You never know what
that much time off, but the judge smiles anddolphins are swimming out there unless you
shakes his head and says, "We really need youreach out and share a bit of yourself along
on  this  trial."the way. Why not strike up a conversation
today with someone new-you may be surprised
Day Two: The jury selection processwhat  happens,  but  it'll  be  good!
continued as the attorneys questioned
prospective jurors. Then the judge said, "ItToday's Affirmation: "I love people and they
would be nice for all of us to get to knowlove me back!



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